Monday 21 September 2015

The naked truth: why nudity’s all in our minds

Selfies. More selfies. Nude selfies. Nude rude selfies of nude rude bits and bobs. Was Bob actually in the photo? But I digress. Or undress. Whatever. Are nude photos the end of the world as we know it, or not what they’re cracked up to be?...

I often feel like I’m surrounded by photos and images of nude or nearly nude people. Shutterstock, for example, the company specialising in high quality digital photos (and where I got the photo for this post from), have quite the selection of nude photos to choose from. And wasn’t Hugh Jackman’s bum in the latest X-Men movie? And under no circumstances are you (in an antique hunting fervour) to google “milk jugs”.

But let’s take a closer look at Facebook (because it’s the only social media I use… ) I see far more of other people’s “lives” and thoughts than I want to...  I have a small number of teenage friends, but because they have loads of friends and Facebook’s predilection to close the gap on any degree of separation, I end up seeing the entire town’s collection of selfies and scantily clad holiday snaps. (I’ve included a collection of Facebook photos from the last couple of days below – these are celebrities that have been shared or liked, not my actual FF’s themselves…)   

It’s not that I want to see all those photos. And I don’t actually want to see any more. But the thing is, we’re allowed to look at photos of girls in push up bras and few clothes or clothes that weirdly suggest no clothes, and we can ogle men with bulging arm muscles and bulges in other places, but try and join in the fun with your own pictures and you’ll be in trouble. For example, a 17 year old boy has been prosecuted for having nude photos of himself on his own phone. That was America, but there are similar cases in the UK, and here in NZ we have the new Harmful Digital Communications Act, which means we could start seeing similar convictions here. This Act means that if you’re under 18 and take nude photos of yourself, or are involved in distributing images deemed “indecent” or “obscene” you are breaking the law. The punishment is a fine up to $200,000 or 10 years in prison.

This new Act has good intentions written all over it – possibly good intentions with unintended consequences. Ah yes, the worst kind. There are two issues. 1. taking photos of yourself and 2. distributing photos of other people. Firstly, taking nude rude photos of yourself. The idea is to protect our under 18’s from being exploited by gross paedophiles, perverts and bastards who blackmail. However, it fails to take into account that lots of photos are taken willingly by those under 18 themselves. And it’s actually legal to have sex at 16, so there’s a bit of inconsistency around the age appropriateness of actions here (you can do the deed, just don’t get carried away and take alluring photos...)

The other issue is distributing the photos. This clause is designed to prevent “revenge porn” type instances of photos being released without consent, and there’s no age limit to this one.  Again, revenge porn itself is terrible. And it’s bad enough having your ex turn up at your place unannounced and unexpected (and usually when they think you’re not home) to take what they think is theirs (invariably it isn’t) without being true wankers and posting compromising photos of you online as well.

The problem is who gets caught up in this one. Take events at a local high school, for example. From the latest newsletter: “over the last few weeks we have seen a disturbing increase in a number of [students]… posting inappropriate naked pictures and videos of themselves on the internet. It has reminded us that this behaviour is more common than we think”. Uh-huh. You bet your bits and bobs it is. First problem was that the students who took their own photos were under 18, second was the fact that everyone in the entire school got sent the photos.

It would be a nice world if people deleted any rude photos of others and sent their friends messages saying “please don’t forward me those photos, I don’t want to see them”. And seriously, I do wish that would happen more often. And I really dislike the idea that some people were deliberately viewing the photos so they could “have something over” the students in question. However, there were a whole lot of others who unintentionally got caught up in what ended up being the distribution of pornographic material of minors – half the school could have been done for being paedophiles all because some students willingly took photos of themselves. In my mind, the simplest way to overcome the stigma of photos and distribution is to not care about nude photos – we’re all naked underneath our clothes people.

There are a whole range of scary and risky behaviours teenagers can engage in. For example, there is a much higher chance of damage or death when it comes to testing the limits under the influence of alcohol and drugs. But nude photos? There isn’t actually a lot of innate danger in that. It actually comes down to a moral stance – the danger is all in our heads people.

Back to Facebook. In addition to the scantily clad photos and videos there are also a large number of cute photos of kittens, little children and ponies and things. In some ways this slightly weird juxtaposition only serves to “normalise” nudity. I’m really not a fan of over sexualising our kids. But there’s something so ironic and almost unjust about getting in trouble for your own experimentation. We live in a world where companies make loads of money out of making our children look sexual (make-up, clothes, endless scantily clad celebrity endorsements and ultimately borderline pornographic advertising). But try and have some fun yourself and goodness me that’s disgusting...

But is it? It seems to me that by criminalising both the taking (under 18) and distribution of photos we’re creating the very problem we’re trying to avoid. We are turning nude photos into a big deal. I’m not talking about photos and videos of other people in compromising positons. That is, and always should be, completely wrong and abhorrent. I’m talking specifically about taking nude photos of yourself.  And really, if you haven’t tried it – you should! It’s fun. It’s empowering. It’s horny. And there’s nothing like parents joining in to put the teenagers off. They’ll never take nude photos of themselves again…   





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